Security systems retailer Peter Ingram watched as his aunt lost her ability to speak, write, or even smile within just two weeks of being diagnosed with a brain tumour.
She was fully conscious and able to understand what was happening around her, but remained silent until her death, taking her secrets, thanks and regrets to the grave.
The website lets loved ones leave messages - or embarrassing videos - for after they pass away. Picture: AFP
"I'd known her for 20 years and to me that was devastating," Mr Ingram said.
He recently launched Australia's first virtual time-capsule site, FromBeyond2u.com, where the living can leave videos, photographs and documents to be sent out to loved ones after death.
The site charges $US1 for users to store their "cherished digital memories" and programme farewell messages for the time of their death and on fixed dates such as birthdays or anniversaries into the future.
"It's not a new concept, leaving things, letters for people, videos, messages, but the internet has changed what we can do with it," Mr Ingram said.
"You can keep in touch today, tomorrow and beyond."
Subscribers can write their own eulogy and create a multimedia tribute for use at their funeral, and bequeath their photo and video files.
Whilst living, they can use the site as a place to store and share their files with friends and family all over the world.
A certificate with an activation code in the event of death is given to every user to be left with their will or next of kin.
Taboo topics
The website could, of course, have less savoury applications, Mr Ingram said.
"I had a radio station ask me the other day 'What if people leave nasty messages? Maybe I want to tell my mother-in-law for the next 10 years that I didn't like her,'" he said.
"I guess she can change her email address if you keep on badgering her with emails, but that's not what it's about."
People could also use the future messages service to posthumously speak to a mistress or spill their darkest secrets, knowing they wouldn't have to deal with the consequences, he added.
"That's none of my business, you can do whatever you want," he laughed.
Sharing with family
Mr Ingram said he had already accumulated plenty of embarrassing footage of his "angelic" son on the site in preparation for his 21st birthday celebrations.
"This is you chucking a tantrum, this is you when you're nine years old telling me you'll always love me, even when you're a teenager," he joked.
"Hopefully at his 21st I will have 12 or 13 years of backed-up photos and memories and hopefully I'll be there. But if I do kick the bucket they'll all be there for him," he said.
Users can also leave more obscure instructions they might overlook in a legal will, such as where they kept their motorcycle keys or hid precious things, he said.
Far from being morbid or narcissistic, Mr Ingram believes the site encourages sharing with family and community.
"I think the number one (aim is) definitely sharing the love with loved ones and being there for them, and not to be forgotten, that's a fear of mine," he said. / news.com.au
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